This 1 Thing Could Be Messing Up Your Over 50’s Dating Life
A friend and I used to joke and laugh that the man we were looking for was really a woman’s personality in a man’s body.
Back then, I didn’t know how true our little joke was.
You see, when women go out into the dating world, they are looking for a handsome man who will be their best friend the way a woman would be.
And I’ve spoken with enough men to know that they’d be thrilled to have a wonderful woman on their arm who would have a few beers, watch sports with them and not talk too much.
As you can see, both men and women are looking for the personalities of their sex in the body of the opposite sex.
And it’s a huge set up for failure when it comes to finding the right person.
But it doesn’t have to be.
I have a couple of secrets to share with you about both men and women that can totally change your dating and relationship life.
So let’s start with women . . . As a woman, you need to be able to verbally share your life with someone.
It’s how you’re wired which means as you’re filling up with stories and thoughts if you don’t have a place to share them you can start to feel overloaded and overwhelmed with life.
The good news is once you get these stories and feelings out of your system, you feel like a new person, and life seems brighter again.
When you’re dating or in a relationship, the person you most likely want to share these feelings with is . . . THE MAN IN YOUR LIFE.
So you share it all and what often happens?
You get frustrated because you just want him to listen and all he seems to want to do is fix the problem for you.
Yet in your mind, nothing needs fixing.
You just want to be heard and acknowledged because that’s what makes you feel better.
Now, here’s the secret about men . . . men are wired to fix whatever they can to make your life easier.
So when you process your day with a man, you’re telling him lots of different stories and he can’t figure out which one he’s supposed to fix to make you feel better.
That’s about the time he loses track of your story.
His eyes begin to glaze over and he begins to tune you out, which drives you crazy.
You get mad because you feel unheard.
Here’s how to change this whole scenario.
When you need to share a story with a man, let him know you just need 5 minutes of his time to share something with him.
Nothing needs to be fixed.
You just appreciate him listening to you.
This will allow you to get the support you need from a man in the way you need it.
Men literally fall over themselves to make you happy if they think you understand them which ultimately can get you the relationship you’ve always dreamed of.
Helping women understanding men is a passion for me because I’ve seen the difference it’s made in my life and my clients’ lives when it comes to attracting and keeping the right man.
I Never Would Have Recognized My Guy If I hadn’t Understood Men
Lisa, So I’ve been seeing someone for the last 2 months and it’s pretty serious. I would never have been with Bill had I not had and understanding of men! By the way, he’s amazing and would literally do anything for me (and I usually let him!) Thanks for teaching me how to do that. Hugs to you~ Lynn, Maryland
If this is something you would love to experience – an exclusive committed relationship . . . but it just hasn’t happened for you, then why don’t we set up a time to chat more about this. (It’s totally complimentary)
To get started, just click here to tell me what’s been happening in your love life.
If I think I can help you, I’ll send you a link to my calendar to set up a time for us to talk. OK?
I look forward to chatting soon.
Believing in You!
Your Next Steps to Love after 50. . . .
💞 Feeling like you are on a merry-go-round of mismatched dates? Lets press pause and talk about how we can write a new love story for you. Click here to start our conversation. Tell me your story – I am here to listen and guide you towards meeting someone truly special.
If you are still gearing up for that step, I have plenty of insights and inspiration for you:
1. Subscribe to my YouTube Channel for heartfelt dating wisdom and uplifting success stories from women who have been just where you are. They found love, and so can you. Click here to watch and learn.
2. Discover a new chapter in your dating life with my book, "The Winning Dating Formula." It is more than a book; it is your journey to love mapped out. And it is just a click away on Amazon. Click here and start attracting the love you deserve.
3. Join our Finding Love after 50 Facebook group to find camaraderie and connection. It is a warm and welcoming space to share your journey and receive support every step of the way. Click here to become part of our community.
4. On the lookout for a dating site that resonates with you? Browse through my personal selection of the best dating sites tailor-made for fabulous over 50s. Click here and say goodbye to guesswork.
Let these resources be your steppingstones to a love life filled with promise and joy. When you are ready, I am here to take that journey with you. Together, lets find your Mr. Right! 🌹
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