The Hidden Dating Treasures For Women Over 50

There are so many women who hold onto the unwavering belief there’s absolutely no “good men” out there to date anymore. They truly believe they’re all taken, so they stop dating and start complaining about the male dating shortage in the world today!

For these women, someone has to be perfect in so many ways or they aren’t worthy of a date.

To set the record straight, there are still plenty of great men out there to date but it can take both your time and your patience for a good one to come into your life. Believe it or not, your chances of finding a good man are getting better everyday.  According to a recent AARP study, divorce is rampant and on the rise in the Boomer generation and older.

That means lots of new men are coming onto the dating scene daily for you to choose from.

Believing there are no good men out there to date, will hold your dating life back and keep you from digging a little deeper into finding what it is you really want- the hidden treasure you’re looking for, the “Quality Man” who is out there waiting for you to find him!

Have you ever watched a show called “Antiques Roadshow” on PBS? The premise of the show is to see if the riches you’ve found in grandma’s attic hold any value. People bring in some of the dumpiest, most God-awful looking items that turn out to be invaluable treasures.

Other times someone comes in with the most gorgeous thing you’ve ever seen and you think this gem has to be worth a lot of money yet it turns out to be worthless and has no value whatsoever except for its beauty to the eye.

This is also be true when it comes to choosing men to date.

If we had our choice, we’d probably date only the most handsome men around. Some of that comes from our younger years when the first thing we noticed about a guy was how cute he was. Today, are you still using good looks as the main criteria for choosing the men you want to date?

It is true, we are all attracted to nice looking people. In fact, we’ll often ignore men we think have the wrong haircut, glasses, or clothes without even seeing the great man that might be underneath all of that.

Be aware of choosing men to date based solely on their looks. The good looking man you think you want to date can turn out to be mean, arrogant or even worse- totally uncaring about everyone but himself. Yet as you get to know the ok looking man, he just might grow on you and become quite handsome in your eyes.

He could turn out to be the best boyfriend you’ve ever had. And all you had to do was give “Average Looking Joe’s” a chance. You’ll end the male dating shortage in your life plus you just might find that treasure of a man you’ve been waiting for.

Believing in You!

Your Next Steps to Love after 50. . . .

💞 Feeling like you are on a merry-go-round of mismatched dates? Lets press pause and talk about how we can write a new love story for you. Click here to start our conversation. Tell me your story – I am here to listen and guide you towards meeting someone truly special.

If you are still gearing up for that step, I have plenty of insights and inspiration for you:

1. Subscribe to my YouTube Channel for heartfelt dating wisdom and uplifting success stories from women who have been just where you are. They found love, and so can you. Click here to watch and learn.

2. Discover a new chapter in your dating life with my book, "The Winning Dating Formula." It is more than a book; it is your journey to love mapped out. And it is just a click away on Amazon. Click here and start attracting the love you deserve.

3. Join our Finding Love after 50 Facebook group to find camaraderie and connection. It is a warm and welcoming space to share your journey and receive support every step of the way. Click here to become part of our community.

4. On the lookout for a dating site that resonates with you? Browse through my personal selection of the best dating sites tailor-made for fabulous over 50s. Click here and say goodbye to guesswork.

Let these resources be your steppingstones to a love life filled with promise and joy. When you are ready, I am here to take that journey with you. Together, lets find your Mr. Right! 🌹

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