My 5 Best Tips For Finding Love After 50

Tip #1. Everyone loves a good romantic Love Story.

They fill your heart as you dream a handsome Prince Charming coming in to sweep you off your feet so the two of you can live happily ever after in total bliss.

These types of stories make you momentarily feel good but they aren’t reality.

And when you use these Hollywood movies to base how falling in love should look, well what you’re doing is setting yourself for total frustration and failure at finding Mr. Right.

These fairy tale romances filled with handsome hero’s keep you from seeing a good man who might be “only average” in the looks department.

Yet, he could be the real hero who is there for you at the end of the day with a glass of wine, has your back when things are great and not so great, and loves you just the way you are.

This is who your real Prince Charming looks like!

Tip #2. Be super clear on the type of man and relationship you want.

I know this sounds obvious but I ask women daily what they are looking for and they often tell me they aren’t sure.

Create a clear vision of who your man is filled with the values you want to share, deal breakers that are non-negotiable, patterns of men you’re always attracted to that don’t work, qualities you want, and how you want to feel around him.

Put it all in writing. When you do, its like a shout out to the Universe that this is what you want.

Tip #3. Create a Dating Blueprint for how you’re going to meet the right man for you.

I’m a huge believer in this over 50’s dating tool that all my clients use because it gives you more ways to meet men over 50.

Most women only use Online Dating.

Many have been successful at finding love with good men online but most find themselves totally frustrated by the online process.

It’s why you want at least 2 avenues for meeting men at all times.

BTW . . . just got this email from a client who felt the tools she’s discovered in my group program are great training for finding Mr. Right.

Hey Lisa…As a member of your Love after 50 Coaching Group, I learned so much about dating and finding love after 50. You gave me a lot of tools to work with – many I didn’t even know about until working with you. Every call was filled with great content and so much good advice and coaching. You’re an excellent coach and I can’t thank you enough for the great training you gave me for finding the right man after 50. Pat, California

If you’re struggling with finding love after 50, I’m here to help. Just click here and tell me a little bit about what’s been going on in your love life. Then, I’ll send you the details on how we can set up a time to talk about how to get your love life back on track for finding your Mr. Right.

Tip #4. Realize the limiting beliefs you may be telling yourself about who men are.

Some of the most common I hear are . . .

All the men online look too old, like my grandpa or father.
There are no good men to date after 50. They’re all taken.
Men my age, aren’t as active as I am.

Any of these sound familiar?

If so, they are blocking you from seeing good men who might be right for you.

That’ means you’re missing opportunities to meet your Mr. Right unless you become aware of these limiting beliefs and use tools to heal them.

Tip #5. Use the first date to find out something interesting about this new man you’re meeting.

You want to ask fun questions like the ones below that give you good information about a man without grilling him . . .

What’s on your bucket list? (This gives you a sneak peek into who they are and what makes them tick)
What do you love about what you do for a living? (Far more interesting way to say “What do you do?”)
What’s your ideal vacation? (Great one for checking out compatibility)

Have fun on a first date using questions like the ones I just shared.

As you get to know him better, you’ll come across as an interesting woman, he’d like to get to know.

Oh and if you missed the 5 Secrets to Stop Pushing Men Away FB Live Training . . . you can click here to catch it on my FB Biz page. You don’t have to be a member to watch it there.

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💞 Feeling like you are on a merry-go-round of mismatched dates? Lets press pause and talk about how we can write a new love story for you. Click here to start our conversation. Tell me your story – I am here to listen and guide you towards meeting someone truly special.

If you are still gearing up for that step, I have plenty of insights and inspiration for you:

1. Subscribe to my YouTube Channel for heartfelt dating wisdom and uplifting success stories from women who have been just where you are. They found love, and so can you. Click here to watch and learn.

2. Discover a new chapter in your dating life with my book, "The Winning Dating Formula." It is more than a book; it is your journey to love mapped out. And it is just a click away on Amazon. Click here and start attracting the love you deserve.

3. Join our Finding Love after 50 Facebook group to find camaraderie and connection. It is a warm and welcoming space to share your journey and receive support every step of the way. Click here to become part of our community.

4. On the lookout for a dating site that resonates with you? Browse through my personal selection of the best dating sites tailor-made for fabulous over 50s. Click here and say goodbye to guesswork.

Let these resources be your steppingstones to a love life filled with promise and joy. When you are ready, I am here to take that journey with you. Together, lets find your Mr. Right! 🌹

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