Are there any good men left to date after 50?
Attracting Mr. Right into your life can be challenging.
The fairy tales you grew up with as a child and the romantic movies you watch as an adult paint unrealistic pictures of who men are and how they operate in the dating world.
After all, who hasn’t watched a romantic Hallmark Movie?
They’re the masters at making it seem as though chemistry and not liking each other are the secrets to finding love.
If only life were that simple, right?
I know when I first started dating, I was definitely looking for Prince Charming to just show up on my doorstep.
In my dream, he was going to sweep me off my feet.
He’d financially and emotionally take care of me forever.
Oh, and we would never argue.
Funny and so unrealistic!
The thing is, I wasn’t looking at what I was going to contribute to the relationship, only what he was going to offer.
(Tip here . . . you need to have the same qualities and values you’re looking for in a man to make it work)
For some crazy reason, I figured my presence would be enough.
Today, this scenario makes me laugh but at the time, I really believed the PERFECT MAN would just walk into my life and I’d know him the second we met.
Sound familiar?
I’ve learned a lot since then and to attract Mr. Right, I realized I had to stop letting men chose me.
My power came from having a clear vision of who Mr. Right was beyond a couple of qualities I thought were important at the time.
I had to dig deep on this and what happened is I ended up figuring out a formula called a Quality Man Template that showed me exactly who the right man was for me.
A Quality Man Template does two things for you.
It sends a message to the Universe that this is who you are looking for.
And it keeps you from getting involved with the wrong men over and over again.
Now I have a question for you.
What makes your guy the right man for you?
Is it his values?
The way he looks?
The way you feel when you’re around him?
Is it a man who can afford fine dining or expensive vacations?
Or is it what he does in life?
Does he have any of your deal breakers? (A woman settles when she doesn’t honor her deal breakers thinking a man will change)
Is he anything like the last man you dated?
Part of the reason you might be failing at finding Mr. Right is most of us get into a pattern of attracting the same man over and over again without even realizing it.
At first, he seems so amazing until the same issues you had in your last couple of relationships come back up again to haunt you.
It wasn’t until I created a patterns chart that I was able to clearly see how and why I was doing this.
Take a few minutes to think about whether you’ve been doing this too.
It’s really important because the type of men you’re most attracted to are probably the worst men for you.
Why? Because if you’re type worked, you’d be with him right now.
If you can expand beyond your usual type you’ll have far more quality men to chose from.
There is a guy out there who is right for you.
Just make sure you have a clear vision of the right man for you so you can see him.
By the way, if you’re tired of continuously dating the wrong men over and over again, let’s set up a time to talk about how a VIP Day with me can totally change your love life.
Just hit reply to this email and I’ll send you a link to my calendar. In the meantime, here’s how having a Quality Man Template changed Wendy’s love life.
Lisa’s Quality Man Template is a MUST for getting the right guy!
After trying everything from speed dating to a matchmaker, working one-on-one with Lisa was the best money I spent to find love after 50. I could always get a date, so I thought I knew what I was doing, but I’ve found her Quality Man Template is a must for navigating the dating world. She also helped me improve my profile so I have more suitable men responding, and now I can return to the template and ensure that I am dating the kind of man I truly want. I highly recommend Lisa as a dating coach! Wendy, California
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Your Next Steps to Love after 50. . . .
💞 Feeling like you are on a merry-go-round of mismatched dates? Lets press pause and talk about how we can write a new love story for you. Click here to start our conversation. Tell me your story – I am here to listen and guide you towards meeting someone truly special.
If you are still gearing up for that step, I have plenty of insights and inspiration for you:
1. Subscribe to my YouTube Channel for heartfelt dating wisdom and uplifting success stories from women who have been just where you are. They found love, and so can you. Click here to watch and learn.
2. Discover a new chapter in your dating life with my book, "The Winning Dating Formula." It is more than a book; it is your journey to love mapped out. And it is just a click away on Amazon. Click here and start attracting the love you deserve.
3. Join our Finding Love after 50 Facebook group to find camaraderie and connection. It is a warm and welcoming space to share your journey and receive support every step of the way. Click here to become part of our community.
4. On the lookout for a dating site that resonates with you? Browse through my personal selection of the best dating sites tailor-made for fabulous over 50s. Click here and say goodbye to guesswork.
Let these resources be your steppingstones to a love life filled with promise and joy. When you are ready, I am here to take that journey with you. Together, lets find your Mr. Right! 🌹
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