Why Coming From Your True Feminine Power Is So Important for finding LOVE after 50
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If you want an Alpha Man in your life – and most of my clients who are Alpha Women always tell me they do – what I’m going to share with you today is important information you’ll want to know and remember.
At work, my client, Elizabeth is an Alpha Female.
She’s good at what she does and knows how to get a job done quickly and efficiently.
But in her private life, she is unable to flip the switch back to her feminine side.
What happens is that her Alpha characteristics of telling men what to do and how to do it starts showing up in her dating life.
Nothing pushes a man away faster than a woman who sounds like his mother once did when she told him what to do in his teens!
I shared 4 Simple Words with Elizabeth that wold change her life with men forever if she used them.
Elizabeth wasn’t ready to practice these 4 simple words just yet in a dating situation.
Instead, she decided to try them out with the men at work figuring she had nothing to lose.
She had a meeting scheduled with the CEO of a major corporation.
In the past, she’d have come into the meeting much like a bull in a china shop.
She’d have pushed and pushed until he either relented and signed on the dotted line or he told her firmly no way.
This time Elizabeth decided she’d take a more feminine approach and use those 4 simple words…. I NEED YOUR HELP to get his co-operation.
Alpha men whether its business or pleasure want to make women feel safe and protected.
Most women compete with men like Elizabeth did with orders and pushing which makes it really hard for a man to step up and meet your needs.
Instead you want to know how to trigger the hero response in him to make this happen.
Elizabeth consciously made a decision to wear softer feminine business clothing to this meeting versus her usual black suit which screamed ALPHA FEMALE.
She took a breath and slowed herself down as she walked into the meeting.
She shook the CEO’s hand and instead of shoving papers in his face, she triggered his hero response by using the 4 magic words…I need your help.
She was astonished by what happened next.
He stepped up and within 5 minutes the deal was sealed.
They spent the next hour talking and at the end of their meeting, he told her to call on him anytime. He’d be happy to help her.
Elizabeth witnessed what every woman witnesses when she consciously flips the switch to her feminine side… Men stepping over themselves to help her.
You can have this in your life too.
Your feminine side is about giving less, learning to ask for help when you need it and allowing yourself to receive from men with gratitude and appreciation.
When you do, men will feel like you get them and they’ll want to connect with you on that emotional level they crave with a woman.
Hope you’ll let me know how these 4 Simple Words I shared with you are changing your life with men.
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I don’t get this obsession with “Alpha Men”.
A lot of women are tired of doing it alone and want a man who can make them feel safe and protected. What are you looking for Terri? Hugs~
I use the “I need your help” and “I need your opinion” all the time with my guy and it works like magic. He SO loves to help me with anything and everything. And then when I thank him for his help or input it just puts him over the moon. Learning to ask, receive, and be grateful for assistance from my man has helped make my current relationship better than any relationship I have ever had with a man. Thanks Lisa!
You’re so welcome Cat. I have clients that also tell me those 4 words are like magic with men. Can change your whole life. Good luck with your guy!!!! Hugs~
I am divorced after a 14 year marriage, my husband left for another woman. I decided not to lay down and give up on myself, so I moved on, and I have tried to do it with grace. It’s been a year and a half and I joined a crossfit gym, I’m in the best shape of my life, my job is going well, and I’m successfully digging out of the financial strain from the divorce. In the last 4 months, a guy 14 years older than me has asked to do things sort of as a friend. But he has held my hand on occasion and kissed me on the cheek. But he’s also just a really nice guy. I’m trying to figure out if he likes me as more than a friend. We’ve listened to each other, I have a genuine interest in him, and we have things in common. I am strong willed and stubborn, so I’ve worked at letting him lead and asking his opinion. He really seems to enjoy my company but I’m not sure what to do now. I’m in my 40s and he is in his 50s. Any pointers are appreciated.
PS When I say “try’ing” please know I mean making a concerted effort to show him care and respect and ask his opinion. And not just bulldoze my way through our time together. I don’t know if he’s trying to get to know me or just not interested in more. I did say a few months ago that I was trying to get my life settled before getting into a relationship but a lot has changed and my life is continually getting better. I actually feel good about me.
Mary…if your ant a relationship with him, you want to say things like, I enjoy spending time with you or it would be fun to spend more time with you. Men need to feel safe taking it to the next level. Its great you respect and ask his opinion. I’m sure he appreciates that. Hugs~