Understanding The 3 Personality Types Of Men We Love And Adore
Let’s face it…since we were little girls, reading fairy tales like Cinderella and Snow White, we’ve dreamt of the man who would come into our life, sweep us off our feet and treat us like princesses.
Isn’t this one of the first qualities you often look for in a man you want to date?
The man who is financially capable of doing this usually has a Type A personality. He’s both driven and focused and I like to call him “The Affluent Man.”
His number one priority is his business, not his mate. He may wine and dine you at the finest restaurants because his idea of love is paying to fix anything your heart desires.
In the end though, he’ll go back to his mistress, WORK… leaving you all alone to take care of the emotional side of life his money can’t buy.
Then you have the Type B Man, “The Do It Yourselfer,” who would personally do anything for you. He truly wants to protect and take care of you himself and he will do whatever it takes to make that happen.
The “Do It Yourselfer” is financially self-sufficient. That doesn’t mean you’ll feast on fine dining every night but he can hold his own on dates and sometimes you’ll pick up the check or split the bill with him.
Our Type B Man lives a more balanced life. He has enough money to be comfortable, according to his standards and he makes the time to be present in his life, whether it’s in business, a relationship or time with his kids.
He’s the one who’ll be there to wipe your tears when you’re sad and will share your joys when you’re happy.
Our Type A “Affluent Man” may be too busy making money to pay attention to your everyday emotional well being and mostly leaves it to you to take care of yourself.
Then you have our Type C Man. He comes out of his marriage financially devastated, often heading into bankruptcy or he’s lost his job, but he is still out there dating. There are a lot of men like this who appear to be great men but have acute financial or emotional issues.
I like giving him the label of ‘The Project Man.” He may be a great guy underneath his burdens, but ultimately his problems will overwhelm a relationship and create a tremendous amount of dependence on you.
Which of the 3 personality types would you like to date?
Do you want the Type A “Affluent Man” who can take you on a 5 star vacation but may not be there emotionally when you need him?
Are you open to the Type B “Do it Yourselfer” who wines and dines you on a smaller scale and is also there for you on an emotional level?
Or do you love a fixer upper? “The Project Man” will keep you very busy with his emotional and financial difficulties.
If you’ve felt no one was out there for you in the past, it may be you had narrowed your view to include only one type of man. The key is for you to stay open to dating both the Type A, “Affluent Man” and Type B, “Do It Yourselfer” while you search for Mr. Right.
Knowing there are 3 personality types of men to date means when you start looking, you are going to find more “Quality Men” out there than you ever dreamed of to date and have relationships with.
To get the type of man you desire in your life, you’ll want to know how to attract, date and keep him.
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Join me tonight with a glass of wine or a cup of your favorite tea or coffee, a pen and paper and get ready to learn all about those men you want to date.
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I enjoy reading your blogs. Many times I have more questions after I read them than before I start. I was wonder when I read this blog can’t men be a combination of more than one of your types like maybe part of a and b? Are there only three tupes of men? If that is correct I seems men from your point of view are very simply and easy to figure out?
At how categories of women are there?
Hee are a couple of type of men where do they fall into the discussion
1) The renaissance man- this the man that can use both sides of his brain so he can understand woman but still acts like a man. He is creative but is also down to earth enough to apply some of his creative to earn plenty of money for himself and his family
2) The Loser- this is the guy who prays on woman that are in their 50’s and crave attention. All the time milking them dry of any money or means that the 50 plus woman may have acquired over their life. This whole pursue in life is to leach off woman until they find a sugar mom.
Just asking ……….
Yep Ted, this town is rife with the loser category; we call them deadbeats; they call themselves “semiretired”. Want to be overaged ski bums and have those of us with good incomes, or their relatives foot the bill. Also we have to add the”playa”, generally very good looking, articulate, has his pick of us women and behaves accordingly.