Is He Right For You? Here’s How To Know For Sure

When it comes to choosing men, especially online, are you looking for men who are “your type”?

Do you wink at them or favor them, hoping they will notice you and write you back?  Are you so disappointed if they don’t?

Who does contact you?  Is it the men you don’t want?

Who really is that Quality Man you desire?

Is he a good looking profile picture? Or is he a total package, a sum of everything he has to offer to your relationship?

Have you ever thought about questions like these when considering a man to date? (This is a smart strategy anytime, but especially when you’re in a dating rut, where it feels like you’re dating the same guy over and over again in different clothes.)

• Will he bring you soup when you’re sick?
• Will he stop at the store and get you what you need, even if it is a bit out of the way?
• Will he bring you flowers and say, “I love you,” even when it’s not your birthday?
• Will he rearrange his schedule to drive you to the airport so you don’t have to hoist that suitcase out of your car or worry about parking before your trip?
• When you’ve had a hard day, will he rub your back or bring you a glass of wine and give you a much-needed hug?
• Will he take your trash out to the curb so you don’t have to?
• Will he get up and do the dishes after dinner?
• Most importantly, will he look in your eyes like you are the best thing that ever happened to him?

As we age, we are going to want more in a partner than just his looks and we will more than likely need more, especially in our golden years.

I watched my father take care of my mom as she was dying.  He wiped her brow, took her to her chemo treatments, made her soup, and held her hand when she was scared.

My father is adorable – just ask my friends – but he would never have been the most handsome man on the block.

If he had been single and dating in the digital age, he probably would have been passed over by lots of women on dating sites.

Yet it’s his kindness and the love he radiates from within that women of all ages adore about him once they get to know him.

I can’t deny that looks are nice. They are.

But next time you are reading those online profiles and you are thinking, “Hmm, not so cute,” dig a little deeper and pay attention to what that man is saying.

If he writes that he’s kind, nice, loves his animals and his kids, he’s worth checking out -even if he’s not the most handsome guy on the page. He’s probably a man with a wonderful heart.

More importantly, his looks could very well grow on you.  After getting to know him, he may be like my father is…cute, adorable, loving and there for you through thick and thin.

And that, my friend, is the true mark of a Quality Man.

I’d love to share with you how to stop dating the wrong guys over and over again, and instead, how to spot Quality Men right away, get dates with them and finally start the relationship you’ve been waiting for.

Join me tomorrow night for a FREE teleseminar, Never Date The Wrong Man Again After 50. Learn more and register here…

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Until next time-

Believing in You!

Your Next Steps to Love after 50. . . .

💞 Feeling like you are on a merry-go-round of mismatched dates? Lets press pause and talk about how we can write a new love story for you. Click here to start our conversation. Tell me your story – I am here to listen and guide you towards meeting someone truly special.

If you are still gearing up for that step, I have plenty of insights and inspiration for you:

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Let these resources be your steppingstones to a love life filled with promise and joy. When you are ready, I am here to take that journey with you. Together, lets find your Mr. Right! 🌹

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