Dear Lisa… I’m Falling In Love With A Man In England
Hi Lisa,
I’m a 66-year-old widow in excellent shape and I’m complimented a lot on my looks. I’m very enthusiastic, smart, confident and lively. 10 years ago, I lost my husband. Since then, I’ve had a couple of relationships that ended friendly but were no match. I was lucky to be married to a man my age for 34 years that was very good looking intelligent, great personality and very successful. I am looking for a man I will be excited to date, not a replacement for my husband.
Where do I go to find him? I am on committees and take classes all over, where I find fabulous women in the same predicament as me. I’m at the end of my rope when it comes to dating. Help! Thanks, Hana
Hana,
I’m so sorry about your husband. Losing someone is difficult but losing someone as dynamic as he sounded is even harder.
It’s very common to subconsciously compare every new man you meet to the special man you lost.
Don’t beat yourself up over this. Just acknowledge that even though you aren’t aware of it, you may be doing this.
There are lots of good men out there. The key is getting to know and like them for who they are and not for how they compare to your past.
Quality Men are everywhere. You’ll want to get your best flirting skills out of your dating tool bag and use them whenever you’re around men.
Not sure you have flirting skills anymore? You can easily get them in the group program, The Winning Dating Formula for Women after 50 starting on Saturday.
Dear Lisa,
I live in Iowa but I met a wonderful man online from England. I think I am falling in love with him. Our conversations are so deep and I just haven’t felt this way about a man in so long. I get so excited just thinking about him. My friends think I’m nuts to be getting involved with someone on another continent. What do you think? Jeanie
Jeanie,
If you lived 2 states away, I’d say, “Go for it!” It’s a situation where you could get back and forth between your homes fairly easy.
Being on another continent is a different story!
I understand how you are falling for him. I bet you feel like you’re living in the best soap opera romance.
The relationship feels easy. Your heart craves him…
Yet you won’t find out how you really are together until you meet in person.
That’s when you can tell whether or not there is true chemistry between you.
If you really think there is something special between you, meet him as soon as you can to find out if this relationship has real potential.
If it works, congrats…but in the future, I suggest staying closer to home.
I hope you all have a wonderful Labor Day.
And if you’re really ready to step up and go after your dreams of attracting a Quality Man, then join my small group starting this Saturday. I promise you’ll have fun!
https://findaqualityman.com/having-fun-dating/
Until next time~
Believing in You!
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Hello Lisa
I have just downloaded your free report and I am encouraged by a date coaching site for women over 50. I am 65 and so far my experience has been one rejection after another and it takes its toll. I have bought into other coaching courses and they are mostly geared to much younger women. I need to know before I buy into yours if there is any relevance for women over 60 years of age, an age a decade or more away from 50.
Thank you
Elaine
Hi Elaine…Yes, my programs are totally geared to women over 50. Dating at this age is totally different then dating in your 20’s, 30’s or even 40’s. I’m glad you’ve set up a private time to speak to me to look into your particular issues. I look forward to talking with you soon!