5 Steps To Having Fun Dating
(Plus The 4 Magic Words!)
Back when you were in your teens or early 20’s, you probably didn’t date all that much.
That’s because you were blessed to be in an environment like high school or college that was filled with men and women who were single and young just like you were.
When you found someone or he found you…you hung out and really got to know each other before you fell in love and chose to marry.
Fast forward to today where 1 out of every 4 over 50’s marriage is ending in divorce.
Sadly, you find yourself part of this generational statistic.
When the judge banged the gavel declaring you officially divorced, your friends probably told you what a great catch you are. They said that it wouldn’t be long before another man and marriage came into your life.
What they can’t tell you is how to attract, date and keep him this time.
Whether you’re new to dating, or you’ve been stuck in a major dating rut, here are 5 easy steps to get you out there and start having fun dating.
Step 1 – Rediscover Your Mojo
You are only going to attract a man who loves you as much as you love yourself, so now’s the time to find out what makes you so special.
Start by making a list of all the things you love about you. If you can’t think of qualities you love…at least come up with things you are grateful for.
The best gift you can give yourself is to stop comparing yourself today to your 20 year old self. You’ll never win if you do.
Instead, learn to love everything about you as the awesome woman you are today.
Step 2 – Learn How To Flirt
Whether you are meeting men online or in the real world, flirting is the best way to get a man’s attention.
Online, you can flirt by favoring men. In real life, smile and make eye contact for at least 5 seconds.
This lets a man know you’re interested in him and it’s safe to approach you.
Step 3 – Have 3 “Go To” Dating Outfits In Your Closet
You don’t want to be scavenging through your closet with nothing to wear one hour before you’re supposed to meet a man for a coffee date.
Sales are happening right now on winter clothes. That means it’s the perfect time to find a couple of mix and match pieces that you can pull out of your closet at a moment’s notice to make you feel great.
Choose soft colors or styles that bring out the girly-girl side of you that men so love.
Step 4 – Date To Date
A man may not be your next mate, but he can be a great date.
Plus, he can make a great friend who might be perfect for that wedding or party you don’t want to attend alone. Or a Saturday night date where he buys the tickets and you pick up the popcorn.
Go on dates with men to meet someone new and interesting.
At the same time, have fun and enjoy male companionship while you’re still out there looking for Mr. Right.
Step 5 – Use The 4 Magic Words Men Love To Hear
Ever wonder why men were stepping over themselves to help Scarlett O’Hara in Gone With The Wind?
Here’s a hint…Scarlett knew how to make a man feel both important and needed.
In turn, men wanted nothing more than to make her happy.
Men can do the same for you.
Women have a tendency to ask men for help the same they would ask another woman for help.
Women are fine hearing it this way but men hear it as demanding.
If you want a man to make you happy, consider using these 4 magic words, “I need your help,” then watch how this changes your life with men.
If you’re like most women, you probably don’t realize exactly how men think. What might sound like a total no-no to you as a modern woman is just what men want to hear the most.
You can find out more about what really makes a man tick right here… https://findaqualityman.com/understanding-men-101/
In the meantime, let me know how these 5 steps are working for you.
Until next time ~
Believing in You!
Your Next Steps to Love after 50. . . .
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If you are still gearing up for that step, I have plenty of insights and inspiration for you:
1. Subscribe to my YouTube Channel for heartfelt dating wisdom and uplifting success stories from women who have been just where you are. They found love, and so can you. Click here to watch and learn.
2. Discover a new chapter in your dating life with my book, "The Winning Dating Formula." It is more than a book; it is your journey to love mapped out. And it is just a click away on Amazon. Click here and start attracting the love you deserve.
3. Join our Finding Love after 50 Facebook group to find camaraderie and connection. It is a warm and welcoming space to share your journey and receive support every step of the way. Click here to become part of our community.
4. On the lookout for a dating site that resonates with you? Browse through my personal selection of the best dating sites tailor-made for fabulous over 50s. Click here and say goodbye to guesswork.
Let these resources be your steppingstones to a love life filled with promise and joy. When you are ready, I am here to take that journey with you. Together, lets find your Mr. Right! 🌹
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